Hi, I am Puja Dutta. I love kids. But in my whole life, I have seen dads and moms around me struggling with their parenthood.
But still, as a mom, I have found myself in the same place through which others go through. One day, the situation that I imagined as more fun, became a source of pressure for me.
And yes, the sources are my kids! With my little ones, I and my husband got some immediate issues. My husband had to return to his workplace. I had to give time to my blog Dadsfaqs.com, Things were really taking a horrible shape.
From that moment to the next 6-7 years, I learned something very important. And these are-
It was our decision…
Actually it was. We decided to welcome a new member into our life. We choose to take the extra pressure on us. It was not my kid’s idea. Now, we knew that our kid will take some extra time from us. He/she will not be that cooperative! Then, why we are being angry at him while he doesn’t have any fault in this? We decided to make our decision a happy one.
We felt like, caring for our child is something that we promised to him while he was coming. And, we should keep the promise. We were stressed, we were under pressure. But, later, we didn’t get upset or angry with our child for all these.
We are out of discipline…
In our marriage life, for the first two or three years, we were a super indisciplined couple. We used to get up late, sometimes couldn’t manage to have our breakfast, used to miss showers and cleaning things. We couldn’t save money much. But, after our kid came, we learned that we should keep discipline. And, the problem we were facing was not because we had so many things to do and we had only 24 hours for that. It was because we used to waste our time doing things that were not important.
I am not a superwoman…
Yes, maybe I am one to my kid. But, after my experience, I got it that, I am not an actual superwoman who can do everything at a time. I can’t do multitasking. If I do that, I will end up doing nothing. So, I choose my priority and went with the work one by one.
We are not alone…
And finally, I had this question in my mind, am I the only one who is going through this? Of course not! There are so many people out there who are thinking things exactly like me. Now, after all these years, I have some knowledge to share about my parenthood. Here are my moments, advice, and experience that I can share with you. Let’s begin…